Perspective is everything. People are going to disappoint and hurt each other. It happens all the time. Most of the time whoever did the hurting isn’t even aware of it!! Here’s where perspective comes in. If we assume the best and give each other the benefit of the doubt, we would have a lot less hurt feelings in the world.
In my experience, if you hear both sides of the story, you realize neither person was just being mean. One thing that I know for sure, Jesus does not sit around hurt, angry, and thinking about what losers we are. He reigns and rules in grace and mercy!! If you want to reign and rule in life, get His perspective on everything!!!!! TC